Dating Chinese Girls In China For Western Men

This article tells you how to easily get a Chinese girlfriend online. It is about dating Chinese girls in China for western men. I will tell you how I found a Chinese girlfriend online, even though I live in New Jersey, USA, and I have never left the country. What you should know right away is there are thousands of Chinese women in China who are looking to date – and marry – guys from western countries. You just need to know the best place to look and how to approach them. Since I did this already, I figured I’m as good a person as any to give you advice.

I have always found Chinese girls beautiful but, living in NJ, I had never actually met one in person. When I broke up with my girlfriend over Christmas of last year, I decided I wanted to make my dream come true; I decided to find myself a beautiful woman in China to be my girlfriend (and maybe more, some day). It took me a few months of looking, but I eventually found her. This is my girlfriend, Li-ying, below (she gave me permission to post her pic).

Li-ying is 22 and currently finishing off a Masters degree in Accounting in Bejing. When she gets her degree, she will be coming to live with me in New Jersey, USA. In the meantime, we have planned to spend the summer and Christmas together. I don’t like to fly, so she is coming here.

So, let me tell you how I found a Chinese girlfriend.

A few months back I looked around Google search for resources on dating Chinese girls in china for western men. I found a few dating sites and mail order bride sites. What a waste of time! Trust me, avoid these kind of sites. I joined several and all of them seemed to be cons. When the girls contacted me, they were asking me to join other dating sites, or send them money to pay pal for various reasons. I smelled a rat.

I told a friend what I wanted to do – find a girlfriend in China – and he gave me the best and most simple advice ever. He said, “Just join a dating site.” To be honest, it had never occurred to me to look for women in China on a dating site. I don’t know why. Well I joined the biggest dating site I could find – this one here – and started to look.

I would suggest you use the same dating site I did, because this next bit of advice worked for me on that actual site. However, I think this will work on any big dating community, so it’s entirely up to you.

Link to their free community: free page

When you join that dating service, you should include in your description that you want a girlfriend from China. Why? Well girls in China are searching for men on this site every day. If you have that text in your profile, it means the site’s search engine will pick it up, and deliver your profile to Chinese girls who are looking for men like us.

When your profile is complete, all you need to do is go to the people search page. Now this site will let you search for women based on “country”. So all you do is select China and, bingo, you have a list of women from China who want dates with western men.

So you have a list of Chinese girls. It will tell you which ones are online and which are offline. You can add them as friends, send emails, or send quick instant messages. I would suggest you send a nice email to each one. Chinese girls prefer it because it looks like you are putting in a little effort. But, don’t worry, you can send the same email every time.

And this worked for me. After my initial search for sites about dating Chinese girls in China for western men, this site got me a girlfriend. Me and Li-ying chat online every day over msn webcam and exchange emails. I’m looking forward to her visit this June, too. And – who knows? – maybe there will be wedding bells in the future!